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February 27 Update

I just called to see if Amy wanted to blog anything today, but at the moment she is talking on the phone to her wonderful friend, Deb Rose. Deb and her husband, Brian, used to live in Louisville several years ago. They were our very best friends.

If I were talking to the Roses this evening, I would tell them that Amy is desperately scared. The docs have given her a very stiff dose of antibiotics, but as of this moment, her body temp is climbing once again. Her primary doctor told her he fears that this infection may be fungal in nature. I don’t completely understand all of the implications, except that we are shooting at this infection with our biggest guns, but it just keeps on coming.

In her introspective manner, she shared with me today that if she had known she would lose her sight, she would have invested it more wisely in the things she read and watched: “What if I go completely blind and can’t read the Bible? I have to get more serious about memorizing.” This morning a doctor told her that she was “really unlucky” to have this stroke in one eye, and “doubly unlucky” to have it in both. She said that God helped her to realize that He is not “rolling the dice” with her health. When she was frightened today, she would imagine herself being held in God’s hand, and that her eyes were being held just out of Satan’s reach. “My very small eye is being held securely in the palm of God’s great hand.”

Throughout this ordeal, the people I work with have been so incredibly supportive. I have been blessed by individuals wanting to keep the boys for a few hours, or informing us that they are bringing food, or offering to go to the hospital and sit with Amy or pray with her or just “hold her hand so she knows she isn’t facing this ordeal alone.” This morning Amy was having multiple tests and I couldn’t be in the room with her anyway, so I went to school and taught a couple of classes. The Dean of Students told me at the end of the day to “forget about work” and just spend time with my family. As soon as school was over, I hurried to the hospital to find that my head administrator was already waiting outside Amy’s door so he could pray with her. Interestingly, one doesn’t always recognize and appreciate his friends until he is faced with difficulty.

Last night she asked me what God might be trying to teach her. I don’t know the answer to her question, but of two things I am certain: God never wastes a teaching lesson, and Amy is a wonderful student.

Your comments have meant so much to Amy. Several times during the day I have called to share with her the words of her sisters in Christ. Amy finds great security knowing that her prayers are not “standing alone.” As you pray, please be aware that tomorrow Amy is scheduled for several more diagnostic procedures.

Finally, Amy just called and said that her fever has dropped back to 99 degrees. God has chosen to reduce her temp without even using Tylenol.

Blessings to each of you,
David

Comments

Aimee said…
Amy I don't know you and my church doesn't know you but we are PRAYING for you!
LOS said…
Amy and David, My heart is heavy for you as I read your posts. I became aquainted through Amy's yahoo blog. Your honesty, and open faith has ministered to me. I also know the devistation of health concerns for a family member and this hits home. I am not at all surprised by the faith that is expressed even through this difficult time. Hold on to that! Romans 8:18 has been a verse that I try to hold onto, knowing that God will get the glory! This part of the tapestry of your life may not be pretty, but one day we will see the most beautiful picture! I will be praying for Amy, David, and the boys; for strength, healing, and for grace.
Anonymous said…
Amy, David, and boys,
We and our church are holding you and your family before the Father tonight. I weep with you; your fears and sorrows are our own.

Yes, we know that God IS in control. We have felt Him close to us in every difficult time.

And whatever path he chooses for us, Jesus feels our pain, even when fellow humans don't. And by His stripes, we ARE healed. Not always physically in this world, but for eternity when we are whole with Him. And even if the path is hard, we know from experience and the Word that he will cause it to work for your good.

These feeble and stumbling thoughts are offered in hopes that the repetition of the well known promises, line upon line, line on line, will bring the Word often to your consciousness, and therein you might feel the everlasting arms holding you securely, for all time and eternity.

Rest in Him, and we pray for a speedy recovery if that is what would bring glory to His Name.

With all our love,
Your AK family
jenny said…
Many praises for a reduced fever!!

I have so been praying that your community would enwrap you in their arms...I am so thankful they are doing so.

You are continually on my mind and in my prayers.
LindaJo49 said…
David and Amy, What a blessing you have been to us since you entered our lives after you moved there to Atlanta. I guess our lives have been connected over the years, we just didn't realize it. I know that Amy is such a wonderful blessing to the ladies in the Bible Study at Susan's and I have been blessed to have been at a few of those studies as well. To hear Amy's transparency through those sessions has been such a blessing. As much of a blessing as that has been, your role as her husband, protector, best friend, etc., has stood out more than you know! Watching you making sure she was okay when we brought her home and she sat and talked with Susan, we commented on the way home how very blessed Amy was. I have shared the request for Amy on our prayer chains and will continue to hold her up to her heavenly Father and ask that if it be His will, He would restore her sight. Nevertheless, her testimony of faith throughout this is a shining example of God's grace!!
Anonymous said…
You are heavy on my heart, and in my prayers.

With you, and In Him... the best and safest place,

Tom McCall
Anonymous said…
I feel at such a loss for words. My mind cannot comprehend why all this is happening to you and your family. Yesterday as I read your post the song came to mind "...for I know what ere befall me, Jesus doeth all things well." I have watched you so many times before and again now, how you have chosen to trust God through each circumstance. You've not allowed yourself to become bitter when things weren't going the way you hoped. I'm not sure of the lessons that God is trying to teach you now, but you are truly an example to me of what it means to put yourself into God's hands. Amy, I love you. You are such a special friend to me. I wish that I could be there with you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers all throughout the day. David~ Linda said it so well in her post. Amy couldn't have a better husband. Thanks for taking such good care of my friend. To the boys~ I love you and am praying for you and your mommy!
Unknown said…
Amy, Dear Child Of The King, you continue to be ever in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for the update and a big praise for your reduced fever!
Dori Overman said…
David and Amy,
It is at times like these that I remember what "pray without ceasing" is. Even in the busy moments of my day if I am not actually praying, you are in my heart and on my mind. I'm praying for peace that can't be explained and healing for Amy. Even though it's been SO many years since we were in college together, I love you guys
Anonymous said…
Amy, Just stopping by to say that you are constantly on my mind. Wish I could come by and keep you company during some of those long hours that you are spending at the hospital! I am praying for healing, wisdom for the doctors and God's perfect peace for you in the midst of such scary days! Don't forget what Dr. Kline always says "God desperately loves you!!" : ) Rachel
Sandi H said…
Amy, David & boys,
It hurts to read this so I can only imagine how must it must hurt to be living it. But one thing I do know is that God grows us most during difficulty and I am so glad that you are up for the challenge even if it doesn't feel like it. You use some of the same words I do - looking for the lesson. So I know that you will be more than ok - you are blessed. I put you on our church prayer chain and last night even in a committee meeting, we stopped and prayed for you especially. My friend, an awesome prayer warrior, asked not only for your healing and peace but that God would get glory out of all of it. Know that you are held up - in a very real way we are your "rope holders" like that awesome Bible story. Several years ago I had my young adult group rent out a rock climbing gym and we spent the evening scaling what seemed like insurmountable obstacles. When we met the next evening for our Bible study, we reflected on the night. The one thing that was amazing was that everyone was able to do more than they had thought possible. Not because of their own abilities but because of the rope that was holding them and their rope holders. The rope could hold up to 5000 pounds - well beyond what anyone could ever weigh and the holder just had to hold steady. When we read through the Bible story of the friends who brought their friend to Jesus as they lowered him through the roof - probably with ropes - it was a reminder that our "rope" - Jesus Christ - is so much bigger than anything we face and with our "rope holders" - fellow Christians that bring us to the Father - we can make it through anything. You have that rope and we are your rope holders. Hang on - because we are!! You are prayed for and loved!
Sandi H said…
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Michelle said…
While reading your post this morning my heart did a flip flop when I read about the MDs thinking a possible fungal infection. You see I suffered from some sort of "weird" fungal infection several years ago. Numerous tests, doctor visits, trips to University Hospitals to see specialists I and my family were at their wits end. I just wasn't getting better. But I had so many praying for me and after numerous rounds of antibiotics, steroids etc my body began to respond to treatment. I feel like it was God's touch on me because for no apparent reason I just started responding to the various treatments and I haven't had any major problems in years. I do take medication on a daily basis to hopefully prevent any reoccurrences.
You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandi H said…
Amy. In my long, long post I forgot to include one of the best lessons we learned at the rock climbing gym! When we reached the "top" or as far as we could go - we came to a point that we had to basically let go and rest back into our harness and depend on the rope and holder to control our descent. I don't know if you are at that point yet but if/when you get there - trust in the fact that the rope and the holders won't let you fall and that you can simply rest in that knowledge! I have heard back form many of my prayer warriors this morning that they are especially praying for you today!
Amy, the last part of Davids post said your fever dropped without medicine. I praised God for that and asked Him to continue to touch your body, your eyes and your spirit.

One thing that stood out to me is when you wondered what God could possibly be trying to teach you.

A thought that immediately popped into my head as I read that was... it may not be you that He is trying to teach anything to, (although I am sure we can all learn something from EVERY situation) but it may be that you are going through this to touch and minister to someone else or many other people.

Although Connors situation has surely taught me SO many things, I know his life, his struggles, his triumphs and the miracles that have happened to him have also touched many, many lives all across the globe, and the same I am certain, will be of you.

You have many people holding you up in their prayers, surrounding you with love and are anxiously waiting to see the next post.

With continued prayers and love,
Charlene
Mary Ellen said…
Dave, Amy and boys,

We have been praying, are praying and will continue to pray. May God be especially close to each one of you during this difficult time. Wish so badly we were close enough to help. I love the word picture of God holding you, Amy, in the palm of His hand. Many of your blogs have touched my heart, you are a very special person who is loved by many...
We are friends of Tim and Carolyn Balty in Alaska.

Praying for the best for you and yours.

His hands are big enough!

www.kleincabin.com
Kimberly said…
Continuing to hold you in prayer...I think of you from the very beginning of the day and on...believing Grace will uphold you all!
Anonymous said…
Dear Amy,

I have asked my whole family to be praying for you. Iknow God is with you and your family in these trials and tribulations that you are walking through. Remain strong, trust Him, and He will see you all through this. He will use you and your family to help others because of what you are walking through. I pray God gives you and your husband and your boys Peace, knowing that He is with you.
Judy
jason miller said…
Amy and David--praying for God's healing touch, for strength and courage as you go through these days.

(thanks to people on the HSBC blogs alerting me and others to your situation)
Rochelle said…
I've been in bed with the flu the last 2 days, but have been praying & thinking of you often. Praise to God that your fever came back down. We don't know what the meaning of this struggle is...but thankfully you know the God that loves you & continues to hold you close in His hand.
Anonymous said…
Dear Balty Family:
May God continue to hold you in the palm of His hand and work his will in your lives.
The Tim Reynolds Family
Shaun said…
Amy - You have been constantly on my mind and I have breathed many a prayer on your behalf. I was so thankful to know that your temp was down last night and am praying that today you have sensed the Almighty close by!! Love, Shaun Witter and family
Hope said…
Praying for you, Amy. May the Lord wrap you in His loving arms.

Hugs,
Hope
Anonymous said…
Dear Amy and David. As I read each update and see the love and prayers of many for you I am reminded of the song that has meant much to me during difficult times.

Does Jesus care when my heart is pained Too deeply for mirth and song,
As the burdens press, And the cares distress, And the way grows weary and long?
O yes, He cares; I know He cares! His heart is touched with my grief. When the days are weary, The long nights dreary, I know my Savior cares.

Amy, our Savior is touched with all that you and your dear family are going through....and most of all He cares!
Our Love and prayers are with you,
Jane, Randy & the boys
Mike Golch said…
David,I will keep Amy in my prayers,I truely believe God will answer all the prayers being offered for Amy.Blessing to you and your Family.
Charity said…
Dear Amy,

Holding you and your sweet family up in our prayers tonight. Aren't there a million scary questions in the storm?! I've asked a great number of them myself when I was laid up by two dogs that attacked me right after a dear friend died of an undiagnosed disease. It's the random, senseless tragedies in our lives that shake us down to the core of who we are. From reading Mary Ellen's blog, sounds as though you've walked graciously through many hardships~ wow! I've found personal comfort in the truth that there are no lapses in the goodness of God. May His goodness be especially evident to you today.

Love,
Charity (& Nathan Brown)
You and your family is in my prayers. Sincerely, Rachel Going
"It matters to HIM about you. Your heartache and sorrow HE shares.
No matter what you may do.
He knows you, He loves you, He cares.
It matters to HIM about you. Believe it, because it's true. Hold to His hand.
He understands.
Oh yes, it matters to HIM about you!"

This little chorus has been an encouragement to me, and I pass it along in hopes that it will encourage you as well. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. I'm so glad HE CARES!
Anonymous said…
Dear Amy,
Just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you and we will ask the church here to keep you in their prayers.
Here is a song by Greater Vision that has helped me in difficult times.
It's easy to be happy when the sky is bright and fair
From the mountain top it seems I can see for miles
But when the dark clouds gather
And questions fill the air
I trust the One who sees above and beyond
Chorus: He's above my understanding
He's beyond my comprehending
He knows what I'll be needing in the days and weeks to come
My little mind can get so clouded
When earthly cares has me surrounded
But He's the God who sees above and beyond
There has never been a trial that took God by surprise
He sees it all from the beginning to the end
So when I walk a rugged mile
And teardrops dim my eyes
I place my care upon my everlasting friend.
Debbie and Wesley Holden
Michelle said…
I am praying still and I will link this to my blog. Keep the faith, I know you will.
Lenita said…
Amy, David and boys....we are praying for you! A verse that meant so much to me and my mom during her illness was...The Eternal God is thy refuge and underneath are the everlasting arms. He is holding you!!
You are a blessing to so many....I tho't of you Saturday night as we were at a Casting Crowns concert and they sang, "I'll praise you in this storm"....knowing that you are going thru a storm of life right now.
You are loved!
Lisa said…
Amy, I am praying for your complete recovery. HE IS ABLE to do above what we can ask or think!!!! You have been in my thoughts frequently throughout this day. Remember He is holding you in he arms and loves you.
Rachel said…
David, Amy and boys,
We are praying for you'll and are trusting God will give you the extra strength as you go through this very difficult time. I'm also going to pray that God will give your doctors wisdom as they deal with your case. Amy, you've been such a blessing with your life, just keep hanging onto God's unchanging hand as you go through this latest valley.
Sarah said…
Amy, you may not remember me, but I met you at Woodland Family Camp. I enjoyed our conversations and especially your insights about why God allows suffering. Remember those breakout sessions? Some of what you said really helped me. I wish I could remember your exact words right now, but I can't. I can only say that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

I've always heard that He does all things well. I'm really beginning to believe it.
Dearest Amy-

The Lord always seems to use you to minister to my life! I love your openness, your faith, your fears, and most of all your firm foundation.

He knows your inmost being and sees each tear that falls down your cheek, but mostly, hears us when we call upon him. And now I am asking Him for a specific healing of your eyes & body, and for the doctors to have the wisdom and discernment as they evaluate you!!!

Love you, sister!!!!

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